[oh......he made it worse....that was the opposite of what he intended. jon pulls his hand back helplessly, looking a bit lost.]

Sorry--I wasn't thinking. I didn't mean to--you have every right to mourn.

[it doesn't help that he's used to thicker clothing than this. he has exhausted all his usual avenues of comfort and now he doesn't know what to do.]

Arya was safe enough at home, but I miss her still. I know Sansa does as well.

[it doesn't help how unhappy she seemed to be with the faceless men.]